Lesson 5 - Yachting Etiquette

Overview

In this final lesson of the yacht care series, we shift focus from maintenance and troubleshooting to an equally important aspect of yacht life—etiquette. A yacht is more than just a vessel; it’s a shared space, often a temporary home, and sometimes even a workplace. Whether you are sailing with friends, family, or working professionally, good etiquette ensures a smooth experience for everyone on board.

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By the end of this lesson, you will understand:

• How to move around the yacht respectfully

• Proper use of toilets and onboard resources

• Storage and personal space considerations

• Best practices for managing expenses

• How to be a courteous guest in marinas and anchorages

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Moving Around the Yacht

A yacht’s space is limited, so being mindful of how you move can improve the experience for everyone.

• Rafted-up yachts – Always cross in front of the mast, never through someone’s cockpit. The cockpit is someone’s living space—respect it.

• Hatch awareness – Never open hatches fully, as strong winds or sudden movement could damage hinges or cause someone to fall through.

• Keep hatches closed while sailing – A rogue wave can quickly turn the interior into a flooded mess.

• Navigation table respect – The chart table is for navigation tools, not a storage area for sunscreen, hats, or drinks.

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Toilet Etiquette – Keeping the Heads Functional

A yacht’s toilet system (heads) is not like a household toilet—misuse can lead to expensive and unpleasant problems.

• No paper in the toilet. Ever. Marine toilets clog easily, and fixing them is not a fun job. Always use the bin provided.

• Use holding tanks in harbors and swimming areas – No one wants to swim near sewage.

• Be mindful of how much you flush – Overuse can lead to blockages.

Good toilet etiquette prevents unnecessary maintenance and keeps everyone comfortable.

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Power and Water Conservation

Unlike at home, yachts run on limited power and water supplies.

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Power Usage

• Avoid overloading the fridge unless connected to shore power—it will drain the batteries.

• Turn off lights, fans, and instruments when not in use to conserve energy.

Water Usage

• Showers should be quick and efficient – Get wet, turn off the water, soap up, rinse off.

• Do not leave taps running while brushing your teeth or washing dishes.

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Onboard resources are finite—using them wisely benefits everyone.

Storage and Personal Belongings

Space is limited on a yacht, so organization is key.

• Unpack your bag and store your clothes properly instead of living out of a suitcase.

• Avoid placing bags near ventilation areas, water pumps, or bow thruster motors—these systems require airflow and overheating can cause failures.

Being mindful of storage ensures a more comfortable and efficient living space.

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Managing Expenses – The Yacht Kitty

Sharing expenses fairly is essential for a smooth trip.

• Set up a “kitty” – Everyone contributes an agreed amount at the start to cover shared costs like marina fees, fuel, and taxi boats to shore.

• Understand marina costs – Staying in a marina is convenient but expensive, while anchoring is free but requires planning.

Discussing expenses early prevents misunderstandings later.

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Noise and Music – Being a Respectful Neighbor

• Keep music low in marinas and towns.

• If you want to party, do so in an appropriate location, away from quiet anchorages.

• Be mindful of engine noise early in the morning or late at night—other boats may be resting.

Respect for your surroundings makes yachting enjoyable for everyone.

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Respect for the Environment and Others

Being a responsible sailor means respecting both people and the marine environment.

• Do not “borrow” dinghies that aren’t yours—it’s not borrowing, it’s stealing.

• Always do a headcount before leaving shore—no one wants to be left behind.

• Be cautious of sea urchins when swimming—they can be painful and difficult to remove.

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Handling Damages – Who is Responsible?

Understanding responsibility for damages avoids disputes.

• If the skipper causes damage, they are responsible.

• If a crew member damages something, they are responsible.

• If damage occurs due to improper use of equipment, the skipper is responsible for not explaining things properly.

Treating the yacht as if it were your own ensures everyone takes care of it.

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Key Takeaways

• Move respectfully around the yacht, keeping hatches secured and the cockpit clear.

• Follow proper toilet etiquette—marine systems clog easily, and repairs are unpleasant.

• Conserve power and water—onboard resources are limited.

• Unpack and store items properly to maximize space and prevent equipment failure.

• Use a shared expense system (kitty) to fairly split costs.

• Keep noise levels reasonable, especially in marinas and quiet anchorages.

• Respect others’ property—don’t take dinghies, and always check that everyone is onboard before departing.

• Understand responsibility for damages—treat the yacht with care.